How confident are you?
Self-confidence is essential to succeed in life. Regardless of what you desire, a lack of self-confidence will always hold you back.
Most of us experience trials and challenges in life that make our confidence falter. Whether we like it or not, there will be people around us who will find ways to attack our confidence. People will look down on you, but always remember that you have yourself to lean on, not others’ validation.
Do something to build your confidence! Be that woman that you wanted to be. Here are our top tips to get you started on building confidence.
UNLOCK YOUR POTENTIAL
Only you know what you can truly do. But first, you have to be comfortable with yourself. Know your worth. Consider where you are and where you wish to go. You'll understand that no matter what your plans are, self-confidence is vital in achieving them. When we fail and if things don't work out the first time, confidence drives us to try again.
DO THE RIGHT THING
“How can I be that woman when all these questions in my thoughts tell me I can't?”
Your choices and actions build your mindset. Be the best version of yourself. Stand up for yourself. Do the right thing! You've got it in you, so show them you know your goal. Prove them wrong. You are your own strength. Never allow someone to make you feel as though you don't deserve what you want.
Be kind to yourself. You’ve been through so much. Instead of saying “I can’t do this”, tell yourself that “I’ve got what it takes”, “all I have to do is try”, “there's no problem in trying”, “this is a new experience”, and “I can do better”.
Positive self-affirmations have been proved by coaches and experts to encourage mindset reframing and rewiring. Try out a few phrases each day to set the tone!
Self-confidence will result in increased positivity, contentment, and perseverance. When something affects your confidence, be patient with yourself. Don't blame yourself. Learn from what happened, consider what you could have done better, and keep it in mind for the next time.